::Don't be so RIGID::

entah kenapa lame btol tak guna perkataan "rigid" ni.last time guna atau digunakan oleh lecturer i dekat tg malim. yes... acap kali die menegur kenapa awak ni rigid sgt.dulu i seorang yang perfectionist.sape tak taw kalau wat assignment tuh selagi tak kemas n xcantik, isi x padat  memang tidak akan dihantar. tapi lame2 lecturer tegur... kenapa tutorial pun i nak hantar kemas2.sedangkan ianya hanya tutorial.mase tuh dah terkesima.i menjawab.ITU SAYA ENCIK... yes my lecturer masa tuh LELAKI. maybe dah lame dipandang,di telek,di kaji perangai i ni... kaunselling session bermula.atau di poli dulu we called it sesi mapley.bile teringat balik..lecturer i tegur i rigid..i memang tak fhm.mase tuh hp tak canggih. balik hostel trus goggle dkt kamus.oi pedih kot maksudnye. Rigid!!!! DON'T BE SO RIGID!!!!

RIGID- 1 ) unable to bend or be forced out of shape; not flexible.

             2)  not able to be changed or adapted.

ye ke i mcm ni????mcm tipu je kan.tipu kot.menjerit sekuat ati.. mase tuh seat dalam bilik hostel sorg cari kelemahan. dulu i tak suke advice org.sbb serious i bukan org yg layak advice org. i know myself better. i just memerhati.ckp dalam hati,doa yang org tuh akan berubah.but it change slowly bile igt RIGID. penangan yg sgt kuat. terlalu kuat.ade sejarah tersendiri. bile kite tgk kawan kite, family kite,abg kite,mak kite, adik2 kite buat sesuatu yg kite rase kite perlu tegur in a way to change 'em.yess i should. its a MUST to say or giving an advice to 'em. tp xpelah. maybe org2 tuh tak RIGID mcm i kan. PERFECTIONIST maybe


PERFECTIONIST - Perfectionism refers to a set of self-defeating thoughts and behaviors aimed at reaching excessively high unrealistic goals. Perfectionism is often mistakenly seen in our society as desirable or even necessary for success. However, recent studies have shown that perfectionistic attitudes actually interfere with success. The desire to be perfect can both rob you of a sense of personal satisfaction and cause you to fail to achieve as much as people who have more realistic strivings.


Bagusnya perfectionist ni keje mereka sgt teliti,cantik,kemas.senang cite i "SALUTE". i like this people sbb kualiti kerja yg derang buat n hasilkan. but in other way its still have pro & cons. 

bukan merungut jauh skali membebel.tp bile niat ikhlas kite cuba btolkan situation n giving an advice its just like "mencurahkan air ke daun keladi." its ok.terima segalanya. n i wont say any words.die lebih pandai,bijak menilai.i tak setaraf die.jauh beza kasta kami. jadi lebih baik i sedar diri kedudukan kehidupan i berbanding die. im not ur advisor anymore.find ur good 1!!!!
doa ku pada Tuhan...always yg terbaik untuk die.